Published On: Wed, Oct 14th, 2015

Marriage is a realism than philosophy



Media is exaggerating the realities. Is it the right concept? Yes media depiction of associations in our minds is idealistic expectations. We take relations as good as media portray in our minds. Some people think that marriage is full of rainbows and butterflies. You love someone then marry him and spent a happy married life. What happen if the person fails to manifest the expectations? Couples are often left discontented and perturbed.

Psychological experts have revealed some myths, if you stop believing in so you can start enjoying a real relationship.

Wedding alter people

If you think that your presence in your partner’s life will make him improved then this philosophy demonstrates that you are the one who can make yourself fool better than others. Social worker and co-author of the book How Not to Marry the Wrong Guy: Is He “The One” Or Should You Run? Jennifer Gauvain, as saying that “If you hate the way he handles his meddling mother or you can’t stand how hot tempered she gets, that’s still going to drive you up the wall once you say “I do.” Face the facts: Marriage isn’t going to miraculously change who your partner is.”

Nature can never change if one gravely wants to modify it. If you think that the peculiarities that you abhorrence are not going to adjust after marriage then be equipped for this.

Marriage is the next logical step because you’ve been together for a long time

If you are together for a long time then it can help to know each other and prepare for marriage. But sometimes the couple might not be compatible for marriage. It can be happened when the couples are not mature.

Your relationship can’t fail because you’re married

Psychotherapist and the author of Without This Ring: A Woman’s Guide To Successfully Living Through and Beyond Midlife Divorce Abby Rodman says, that marriage is not just association it wants dedication and concentration.

Jealousy is a sign of true love

It is considered by many people that jealousy means true love but it paves the way to frustration, misunderstandings and agitation.

 Love fixes everything

Marriage is the name of sharing problems and emotions with each other. When you share it increases the confidence and understandings.

About the Author

Sidra Muntaha

- Sidra Tul Muntaha is a journalist (MA-Mass Communication and M.Phil in Mass Communication) based in Lahore. She is working as an editor at fashion, style and entertainment in the section of the Kooza. She writes fashion and entertainment articles for The Kooza News.